Spanking during Sexual Intercourse
Proportion of Spanking in Sexual Life
Generally, when people have an orgasm from sexual intercourse, they will involuntarily express the state of "outbreak" and "unbearable". When enjoying the pleasure of sex, there will be a lot of disobedient actions, such as shouting, yelling, and unconscious "grasping", "biting" and "pinching"; the "emotional biting" belongs to these. These actions are the subconscious responses of individuals to extreme pleasure. A survey of 1100 people found that nearly 65% of the respondents had tried to enhance sexual pleasure during the excitement period, and more than 80% had tried spanking. Spanking is not only the expression of interest in sexual life but also a manifestation of control and release. Like many people, when orgasm is coming, they can't help patting each other's asses to adjust themselves. The other party will enjoy sex more in the process of being patted.
People who know "Sex Life" love Spanking
We know that an exciting sex life needs different sexual intercourse postures. When someone has oral sex on your knees or has sexual intercourse on the back of your hips, you have entered the excitement period. The process of penis pulling and inserting is called the platform period. At this time, it is close to the climax. In a state of high excitement, you unconsciously touch and gradually pat your partner’s sexy ass. This will virtually enhance the "excitement point". On the one hand, it is to adjust and speed up the rhythm of pulling and inserting, on the other hand, it stimulates the partner's “tighter” contraction and then enhances sexual desire through sound.
The physiological need for spanking
The action of "spanking" when excited does promote sexual desire physiologically. The nerve on the ass goes straight to the spinal nerve in the brain. The slight pain stimulates the sensitive nerve. At this time, the brain controls the "joy" signal, which makes the nerve center extremely active, and "spanking" will also produce subtle pleasure. When being spanked, the body will secrete "endorphins", a substance that makes people feel happy, reduces troubles, and releases sex hormones. Under this stimulation, most people's adrenal hormones soar, and their dopamine levels explode. The climax is experienced quickly.
The psychological need for spanking
Psychologically, "spanking" when excited is a kind of sexual interest behavior, which can appreciate the unrestrained excitement and enjoyment of sexual partners under their own "punishment" by enjoying the sense of giving and controlling. Buttocks and the genitals are considered private parts. Spanking has a certain taboo effect. It is full of passion, fear, stimulation, tension, and other emotions. It will also produce a pleasure brought about by secretly violating social and moral taboos. This feeling can only be released and enjoyed without scruples in sexual life. Since childhood, some people have been influenced by the traditional idea of a gentleman's sexual life. At this time, combined with physiological stimulation, they can quickly peel off their previous sexual ideas which become sexual rebellion, achieve a high degree of stimulation, and reach orgasm.
Spanking by non-mainstream people is a special signal
For non-mainstream people, spanking is a sexual method and process. Some are a tacit signal with their sexual partners, such as hinting to "stop" or "reach the limit". It is the "act" of the mutual security agreement. But more extreme spanking is indicative of the sexual behavior of SM people. They are also active when they feel pain through the nerve center controlling joy in the brain. Therefore, when they are spanked, the pain stimulates sensitive nerves simultaneously, resulting in sexual desire and pleasure. SM’s enjoy the psychological gap between the strong and weak in sex. Spanking is not only physical pleasure, but also spiritual excitement for them. Therefore, the degree of spanking is different from that of ordinary people. Instead of stroking, they can bear the vent and release of the limit to obtain the orgasm of sexual desire and the enjoyment of pleasure. For M, he must entrust his senses to the partner, feel the release of each "punishment" and get an orgasm. For S, only when the "Conquest" is reached can he obtain an erection or enter the excitement period and get pleasure. Each other may appreciate the impression left after spanking or kneading in the pain, and finally achieve their sexual goals.
How to Spank
Most people spank their buttocks during sexual intercourse. It's best to stroke the sensitive area on the inner side of the thigh first, and then gently stroke their buttocks, so that the partners can fully feel the "need for extra strength" and gradually strengthen the spanking strength with the movement rhythm. You should combine five fingers and pat again when you need a loud voice. Do not pat the waist. At this time, patting the waist is easy to hurt the kidneys. Patting the genitals will not produce pleasure, but destroy the state of sexual desire. Men should enjoy the "goose bumps" on their buttocks as soon as possible while patting their buttocks to judge the degree of orgasm needed for the women. This is also the subtlety of many adult toys.
In short, spanking is an exciting way to enhance sex. There is no need to tangle with specific forms and methods. It can enhance sexual desire, increase vitality and feel the natural interest, which is the best state.