To set a good chemistry in couples, sex plays an important role. What you think, Am I right? Physical and emotional benefits like improved self-esteem, feeling joy throughout everyday life, reduced risk of heart disease, and more can come from having sex.
From a more useful calling to extended prosperity and thriving, our inspiration for engaging in sexual relations are as moved as conceivable like it. However this world is divided into two human bodies; the males and the females and we talk about sex then person have their own opinion on how to engage in the activity. The ultimate goal of everyone and every sex is to achieve orgasm but the ways to achieve it are endless.
Presently people who are homosexual are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex. Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are often known as gay. It doesn't matter who they are having sex with, just their ultimate goal is satisfaction.
So let’s get started that how things go, how partner gets excited then achieve ORGAMS. Biologically it usually means penetrating sex or sexual intercourse. Generally sexual intercourse separated into four cycles -
These patterns of sex exercises are various sentiments in both men and women. The circumstances, recurrence, and body feeling vary from person to person. Different reactions of the body through different stages of sex can be explained as –
Excitement-Getting excited is an important part of sex cycle where the body prepares itself for sexual activities; both the partner tries to attract each other by kissing, mutual masturbation and foreplay. Men are usually excited by physical touch, nude body, sexual positions whereas women are more affected by figuring, rubbing nipple, lingual stimulation, and sexual fantasy. During this time; blood flow increases to the genitals, pulse and heartbeat quicken so that the penis expands and creates an erection and the vagina lubricates itself (on the inside) which means woman getting wet.
Plateau-When both person are in the excitation of both the partners, the need to get the peak of sex is intensified. They are trying to get more involved in each other; sexual activities are increased. Continuous increment in heart & breathing rate, blood flow to the genitals in both genders. Penis is fully erected and both the testicles became fluffy. In women nipples are hardened, the clitoris and vaginal wall get tighter and vaginal secretions are increased so that the sex can be made more enjoyable. Both the partners are at the peak of their sexual excitement.
Orgasm-This is the time when the person is satisfied. This stage is characterized by continuous contraction, relaxation of the penis and process of ejaculation of semen,
and women experience continuous contraction in the uterine and vaginal wall. These involuntary actions cause a euphoric stage in which an intense feeling of happiness and pleasure is felt.
When a man experiences the feeling where he realized he's going to burst, it is actually the feeling of seminal fluid collecting in his urethral bulb, meaning he actually is about to burst, he really falls down and he is actually ejaculating.
Resolution-After a long journey of sex, a stage of relaxation comes so that the body gets back to the original. All the increased activities as heart rate, blood pressure, breathing rate, etc. are now slowing down and thus pressure is released from the body. Now the person feels stress-free and happy. During this refractory period, the males generally are not able to sex again, his penis will become flaccid (which is based on factors such as stamina and fitness levels) but such a period is not seen in females and they will be able to respond to additional stimulation all the way up to climax once more.
Next, we will see what is going on in your mind during the whole experience. We are going to take you even deeper into what makes us happy and relaxed.
Orgasms Get on Your Nerves
Neurons; the nerve cells are the tiny units that send and receive messages from the brain. The genitals are also packed with a lot of nerve cells. Nerves that are involved during sex are;
- Pudendal nerve (dorsal penile nerve) located in genitals, rectal, buttock regions and is responsible for sensation in penis and clitoris.
- Vagus nerve located in Uterus, cervix, and vagina and is responsible for orgasm.
- Pelvic nerve is located in the cervix and vagina in women, and the rectums of both sexes.
- Hypogastric nerve: located in the uterus and cervix in women, and the prostate in men and is responsible for the emission of semen into the urethra.
This is Your Brain on Sex
What happens to your brain after sex? Is there such a thing as “casual sex”?These are a few of the questions I had in my mind while I designing this article.
So I research things and come to realize that the brain is the master controller of the body; so throughout the whole cycle of sex, it plays an important role too. The hormone releasing centre; hypothalamus, present in the brain which releases Dopamine, norepinephrene, and oxytocin during different stages of sex, and these hormones causes one to feel happiness and euphoria.
During peak, the two people experience a total shut down in the space of the mind straightforwardly behind the left eye which we called the lateral orbitofrontal cortex, it's the piece of your cerebrum that controls thinking and conduct, making climax when you in a real sense fail to keep a grip on everything.
The Science of Faking Orgasms
If someone pretends to be experiencing the orgasm when she doesn’t have it, it is a fake orgasm. There are many reasons for this. So for what reason do we do it and What compels us to pretend to be orgasmic when truly, we're not there? On the off chance that we feel really awkward advising an accomplice how we need to be contacted for reasons unknown, or assuming they're not able to be open to it for reasons unknown, what chance do we have of our desires being satisfied?
Faking a climax is often thought of as something that women do. Women fake it because a direct result of the cultural strain to be alluring and not to agitate others. Yet, an investigation distributed in 2016 in the diary Sexual and Relationship Therapy found that men counterfeit it 25% of the time. One explanation, specialists suspect, is that men feel compelled to climax since that is the manner by which sex customarily "ends." But it might likewise be to satisfy an accomplice or on the grounds that they're not with the correct partner at the place.
An orgasm doesn't just feel good physically; It can also help you feel better mentally about your relationship. Those who had orgasms later became more open to their partner while talking on the pillow. This may be because the big O stimulates the release of the "love hormone" oxytocin, which helps you bond with your partner.